Dealing With The Loss Of A Loved One

Written by Rachel Arieff
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Dealing with the loss of a loved one is one of life's most painful and difficult challenges. Those who lose loved ones often feel as if they themselves have died. Daily life can become difficult and even overwhelming. Depression can set in, along with other psychological complications such as anxiety. Though not pleasant to experience, these are all normal responses to deep personal loss.

However, there comes a point where these responses can become detrimental to our own grief recovery process. Many times, we need the help of a professional therapist to sort out all of these emotions and responses, and then work through them. This isn't meant to rush our normal process; rather, its purpose is to help us take stock in what's going on inside ourselves. From there, we can deal with it from a point of awareness, rather than letting it take control over us.

Help for Dealing with the Loss of a Loved One

Dealing with the loss of a loved one can mean different things to different people. For some, it could mean the ultimate loss: the death of a loved one. For others, it could mean the termination of a marriage or long-term relationship. For yet others, it could be the death of a beloved pet. Whatever the form this loss takes, it is often traumatic. Working in partnership with therapists trained in grief counseling can significantly lessen the trauma.

Counselors trained in dealing with the loss of a loved one can help you get a handle on your grief, plain and simple. They cannot make the pain go away, nor will they try to. They understand that pain is a sane and reasonable response to the loss of a loved one. Rather, their job is to help you find ways to deal with your grief in the most constructive and healing way possible. Grief counselors recognize first and foremost that grief is a process that can neither be rushed nor ignored.


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