Life Coaching

Written by Jeremy Horelick
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There's a fair deal of confusion about the field of life coaching. Ask someone what an engineer does, what an attorney does, or what a pro athlete does, and you get a concrete answer. But what does a life coach do? Isn't this just another new-age fad? Do people honestly need coaches to help them reach their goals? Can't they just work harder?

This skepticism is characteristic of many people who have reached their goals, both professionally and personally. For them, success was never in doubt. It may have taken time to achieve that success, but usually some mechanism was in place to make that happen, whether it was goal-setting, resource-assessment, or any other strategy on which successful people routinely rely.


So Why Are These Achievers So Skeptical?

The reason for this dubious attitude toward life coaching is simple. Winners were given these requisite skills, but many of them don't even realize it. The powers of observation, analysis, behavior modification, and assessment are as hard-wired into them as the color of their eyes or hair.

That's not to say that such traits are genetically predisposed (though there's undoubtedly a biological component to success). Rather, these skills were inculcated at such an early age that their expression seems almost unconscious. For them, it's hard to understand why others can't simply make their jobs, relationships, or finances work. But the act of blaming undermines the prospects for improvement.


That's Where Life Coaching Comes in

Life coaching is all about providing these skills to those who've never learned them. For someone who's never managed his or her own time before, the act of opening a date planner or starting an online contacts database can seem like trying to play guitar for the first time. A good career coach will start with organization, for without this it's impossible even to take stock of what you have versus what you want.

Life coaching is a dialectical process. Though coaches will differ in their tactics and approaches, most agree that a successful model is one that preaches constant refinement. Hence, if a strategy isn't working, it's critical to understand why so that the client can try something new. Similarly, if there's been a modicum of success, it's imperative to discover what's working so that more of that may be incorporated into the plan.


Coaching on the Business Scale

On a larger scale, there are services that go beyond personal coaching. If your business needs to be reorganized for greater effectiveness, training and/or coaching for your whole group may be the answer. After all, if life coaching can help individuals become more efficient and effective, think of what coaching could do for your team as a whole. Often organizational skills and communication skills are lacking in corporate cultures, causing stopgaps and dips in productivity. Effective coaches can fill in many of these gaps.

However, in coaching for both one's personal and professional life, it's important to look for a company that takes the time to find the right solutions for your specific problems. A cookie-cutter solution is no solution at all. However, a specifically tailored program could be just the thing to kickstart you into the next level.



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