Becoming a parent is a life-changing event. Children mean new responsibilities, time commitments, and often, a second look at one's values. Many parents are concerned about not just the day-to-day logistics of raising a child, but also about raising a child effectively--in essence, providing a loving home and positive values. One great resource is that of the parent coach. These coaches can typically help you set priorities and find a positive balance in your life.

Parent coaching and the more common phenomenon of life coaching intersect in lots of places. The same skills that apply to organizing your life can tremendously benefit your child-rearing as well. Time management, finance, self-affirmation, positive thinking, and visualization are but a few of the concepts that can reap you and your family huge rewards.

As an example, one of the most fundamental lessons you can hope to learn through parent coaching is listening. Now many people claim they are good listeners, but try this. The next time you find yourself getting an earful from some long-winded stranger or acquaintance, take note of the way you prepare to rebut, refute, or otherwise chime in with your own two cents. If you have trouble with this, force yourself to take one long inhale and exhale after your interlocutor is finished speaking. If the pause seems uncomfortable, you may indeed be one of those people who simply waits to speak.

Listening as a Part of Parent Coaching

Listening (like observing) is the first step to true understanding. As your coach will undoubtedly explain, only after you start listening can you fully expect to grasp your son or daughter's needs. Many parents are resistant to new or controversial ideas and have a knee-jerk reaction to anything that seems remotely rebellious. But this response gets you nowhere and only serves to further frustrate or anger your child. A good parent coach will help you practice these skills until they're second nature and your family life is back on track.