The sensual approach will often enhance the sexual experience for a woman. If you are in a rut sexually, and sex is performed in a routine manner with the lights out, no wonder she is losing interest. Stimulating the senses is a wonderful way to kick-start a sexual relationship. Any manner of appealing to the senses will work wonders, and the number of ways to enhance sex is only limited by your imagination.

This can be accomplished by music, and it's important to know what kind of music will excite her sexually. Different music can set a mood and trigger an appropriate response. By the same token, music which she perceives to be a turn off will have that affect. If someone played country music to try to set the stage for me, it wouldn't work. It's important to know your partner.

A bath can be wonderful foreplay and a gentle, sensual way to relax your lover and get them in the mood. Scented bath oils and a candle-lit bathroom make for a great start to an evening. Scent can be another tricky area, as some people are particularly sensitive to scents. If in doubt, stick to something with a fresh, clean smell.

Oils in the Bedroom

Develop the sense of smell some more in the bedroom and smother her body in a rich body oil to moisturize her skin after the bath. Certain smells like Patchouli or Ylang Ylang are known for their aphrodisiac qualities. Additionally, the gentle rubbing of her body will go a long way to enhancing sex with your favorite female.