A boutonnière on a man's lapel marks his involvement in a very special event. It is traditionally worn at weddings, proms, Easter get-togethers or funerals. But, of course, a man is not limited to these occasions and may wear a boutonnière whenever he wants to announce that he is attending an event that is important to him. A small flower on the lapel of a dinner jacket or tuxedo lends an air of elegance and sophistication to any man's appearance.

The Significance of the Boutonnière

Historically, the boutonnière first gained popularity in medieval times, when a knight wore his lady's colors while in battle or during jousting tournaments. A small token of her favor was represented by a scarf, handkerchief or flower tucked in the tunic. This tradition became the origin of the boutonnière with which we are familiar today. For instance, a groom still wears a boutonnière that is the color of his bride's dress or chosen color scheme for the wedding.

A boutonnière can be almost any flower that can easily fit onto the lapel. Small flowers are most appropriate, such as tea roses, freesia or carnations. You can find a lot of creative designs. Most will be set against a background of greens or sprigs of baby's breath. Boutonnières are usually most elegant when kept simple, so as not to distract from the gentleman wearing them!

Perfect as a Gift

Ladies, don't forget that your gift of a boutonnière will show your gentleman that you claim him for yourself! Remember the origins of this tradition when you are out on the town or at a special event. The boutonnière signifies that you are together, and that he has been given a special gift from his lady as a sign of her affection and regard. So, next time you want to make the occasion special, consider marking the event with a boutonnière.